
Full marks to someone who seized the moment to engage with me in a conversation that was never meant to happen
Here is a funny little sidelight to the string of Christmas events of the past few days. As I mentioned previously, we had a choir for the Grace Canberra Christmas Eve service. It wouldn’t have given the Kings College Chapel boys a run for their money but it was made up of full-hearted individuals. Amber Nicholls has an amazing singing voice, so when we had our last rehearsal I asked her if she would choose a song to sing as a solo and she said she couldn’t think of anything in particular but would give it a think or two and let me know.
On Saturday morning I decided to text and the text conversation went something like this:
B: have you thought of a song for tonight?
A: ‘Semi-charmed life’ by Third Eye Blind might be good.
B: What kind of backing would you need?
A: Keys, bass and drums would do.
B: What about downloading a backing tape?
A: That would work okay.
B: Can you download it?
A: I’m a bit busy, can you do it?
B: I think so, where is the web site?
In the interim before the next reply I found the web site and downloaded both the lead vocal version as well as the backing vocal version AND the lyrics. So the conversation went a little further:
B: I’ve found the site and downloaded the audio.
A: Thx
I had a look at the lyrics and just couldn’t get the connection to anything that seemed to have Christian faith about it, and even less about Christmas. Being a genuine baby-boomer I figured there was some deep symbolism and thought Amber would explain it to me.
When Amber arrived at our final run through before the service I asked her about the song. She replied, “What song?” I said, “The Three Blind Mice” song or whatever you called that band.” She replied, “I don’t know what you are talking about.” I said, you know, the text conversation we had and where you asked me to download a song. She said, “I didn’t get any text message from you this morning.”
The strangest feeling came over me to realize I had had a full on two-way conversation with someone who was NOT Amber but who had carried the matter so well that I had followed along without question. Amber knew the song, as did a few other people around. For those like me who have to Google the name of the band and the song to know, “Third Eye Blind” is an alternative rock band from San Francisco in the late nineties. “Semi-Charmed Life” is a song written as a San Francisco version of “Walk on the Wild Side” written by Lou Reed (1972) about some of the wilder experiences to be had in New York city. Not a regulation Christmas song. The question going around in my mind is the obvious one: who in the world was I talking to?
I had their number in my phone of course so I decided that sometime the next day (Christmas Day) I would send a message and say something like: “I know you are not Amber.” We were on our way to the Christmas lunch we put on for people who don’t have family homes to go to. My phone buzzed and there was the following message:
(not) A: How did the song go?
B: The reeely funny thing is that I discovered you aren’t Amber
(not) A: Lol and merry Christmas
B: and the same to you. This was genuine fun.
(not) A: same, take care.
And that was the end of it. “(not) A:” contributed to a very funny little Christmas aside – and we didn’t sing: Semi Charmed Life during the service. But I do have a copy of the backing tapes if anyone ever needs it.
Brian